Hey Yogee
I'm not condoning abuse of the refs.
I'm just pointing out that the questioning of refs by coaches and players has been part of the game from day 1.
You can call me pessimistic but any solution based on a utopian situation where players, coaches, fans, parents and umpires live in harmony and no abuse/questioning occurs is just not practical in my opinion.
I'd love to offer a solution better than what I have written above but I can't.
Besides there is a lot of grey on this topic. I mean how difficult is it to define abuse?
If we are talking about a player yelling out "where's the foul?" or "3 seconds" then I say get on with the game. If you are talking about abuse of a personal nature such as "what the f*** were you watching?" then I say give out a tech.
My opinion is that from an early date, a lot of effort should go into building an umpires confidence that 99% of the questioning they will get is not of a personal nature and not to take it the wrong way.
Will result in a much better situation than an umpire going home believing that it was personal when the majority of the time it is not and is nothing more than gamesmanship/competitiveness, etc.
I mean go through the top 50 coaches and players of all time and give me a few examples that didn't speak back to the refs. I can't think of any.
Jordan, Wilt, Magic, Bird all talked to the umpires on a possession by possession basis, not just gamely basis.
Out of both list will be some fanstastic sportsmen and fair individuals off the court but highly competitive on it.
Brett Maher is a great example. He is undoubtedly a fair, fanstastic sportsman but he works the refs almost as much as one of Australia's other great sportsmen, Andrew Gaze.
If we are talking about swearing, physical confrontations, parents yelling personal abuse, etc then fair enough, the umpires should issue techs and enjoy the protection of the by-laws.
However, I stick by my opinion that wide spread instructions (especially to junior refs who are not up to speed technically) to issue techs is a bad idea.
For example, if I hit someone in the face going for a block that I would have called on myself in a scrimmage that results in a no call in the game then I am the first to say the player I hit in the face shouldn't get a tech for having a whinge.
Would it be any surprise for this player to become even more aggressive if hit with a tech?
Compare the reaction of the above player to receiving a tech with being told "sorry mate, from my angle I couldn't see it". 9 times out of 10 the latter results in the game remaining under control better than the issuing of techs.
I ask you this Yogee from your experience as a ref. Does issuing techs result in a peaceful, fair game and solve problems or does it escalate situations?
In my experience all it does is compound problems, result in further agression and frustration, and lead to teams/clubs making the issue personal by requesting certain umpires don't officiate their games.
Also, in your examples of how umpires don't abuse players/coaches for mistakes (ie blind freddy coach who doesn't call a timeout or keeps best player on the bench) how do they affect the umpire?
As an impartial spectator to the game, the umpire shouldn't care less if a coach is making a mistake. Their team will suffer but the umpire won't.
Players on the other hand are affected when no fouls are called, no 3 seconds are called, etc.
My opinion is that greater effort has to be made in the early days of a refs career in being realistic with what comes with the territory and providing support in the form of re-iterating that most questioning/abuse is not of a personal nature. Give them support in advising that it is not just them as isolated individuals who get questioned but even the leading SA refs such as Weekes as noted above.
IE Don't go into medicine if you don't like blood, don't go into law if you hate conflict, don't go into engineering if you hate maths and don't go into umpiring if you don't like being questioned.
I understand that abuse leads to umpires quitting but for every frustrated ref I guarantee that there are frustrated players, coaches and parents who are paying top dollar without the competent refs that such payment should provide.
I acknowledge the problem is circular but I stand by my opinion that any solution based on players/coaches not interacting/questioning the refs is not practical and will never happen.
Yogee, if you wish to discuss this issue further with me or seek further clarification then feel free to get my email address from Isaac.