So all the people arguing that people shouldn't be involved in coaching or playing if they are umpires are idiots
I played, than I started umpiring an when you first start as someone already said you focus on calling the game and where to stand and nothing else
I quit playin and focused on my umpiring for a year and that was good to improve my umpiring and rule knowledge but lost my understanding of the game
Went back to playing and went hold on I would want that called I I'm playing so I'm going to call it an players respected me over over referees as I called the game they wanted to be called
Than I started my coaching, and I started to see the game through the eyes of coaches and how frustrating it is, so I was able to communicate with coaches better and they respected me more
And because I umpire this way I will never do div 1 seniors or div 1 youth league because I don't umpire the way that the top umpires want me to umpire, I umpire the way the players and coaches want the game to be umpires
I have had plenty of coaches asked why I was only doing what I'm doing and that is my response every time, because I'm not going to suck up to the referee coaches to get those better games
So because I do this have been associated with a couple of clubs and there is not one club that I don't have friendships at, so to the original complaint so what if they hi someone before their game, an not afraid to show affection to their friends. Get over it and don't be jealous, and if you think they are being bias maybe take of your rosé coloured glasses and realise that the court supervisors aren't stupid and will notice if something's ammist but won't talk to them so everyone can see it will be done behind closed doors
For writing this you may have destroyed that referees chance to prove themselves in the near future and this is why we have a referee shortage in Australia, so please put your hand up for umpiring so you can see how difficult it is, and not sit behind your computer writing shit about referees on hoops. Big tuff person you are