I don't know anything about these teams in question, the tournament, the coaches anything. I am here because I run a forum and think the bitching in SA basketball (especially as it appears on this site) is terrible.
Here are my assumptions to date from generally skimming these posts as they come through - correct me if I'm wrong:
- there's a tournament interstate
- from the same organisation (SAC?), there are boys and girls teams going
- the girls team has a great chance of winning
- the boys team is not particularly fancied
- the number of coaches and support staff going along with the girls team is greater than the comparative group from the boys team
Now, from those assumptions: Who cares if someone is more inclined to attend if the group has a better chance at winning? These people are evidently making sacrifices through work or wallet at some level - I still don't see how that's a massive drama. If I'm a non-essential assistant coach who has some role back here at home, and my team is likely to struggle, I might be less inclined to make the effort and expense. If the team has a great chance, I might be more inclined to make the sacrifice to attend and feel the rush if they win. If they're not costing parents more, why deprive someone the opportunity of sharing the glory?
If you're not a parent posting here who is paying, why the great concern?
It's not a zero sum game. There's no physical 'conservation of glory' rule going around the world of science. This isn't energy or momentum. If every friend and relative of each player could make it there, I'm sure they'd love to go.
And if you are a parent who is paying, someone mentioned that the costs were itemised, and you could always speak with those organising the trip to find out more information about what costs you're shouldering - e.g., sounds like some of those coaches/support involved are paying their own way or on a scholarship.