Hi Martha,
I am the ref that you had last night. I spoke to your team last night after the game and when told that she called a player this my response was I didn't hear it which is the truth. I was in the process of watching the play when I turned around and saw two players abusing each other off the ball. This is when I stepped in and gave a verbal warning to both teams to either play the game or I would call the game off as BOTH teams were abusing each other at the time that I stepped in. The game then quietened down and continued only to start again due to players from the other team firing up that some of your players had 5 fouls, yes I should have done something here, but by the time I could do anything you had made up your mind to walk off and go home.
I am sorry for what happened last night but as I said I did not hear her call anyone the name you say. This may have occurred, but I cannot do anything about this unless I hear it. You asked me to talk to them about their language which I did straight away, the language had then stopped until the said incident.
Again, I am sorry that the game had ended this way, but I don't understand that you claim I didn't do anything. My partner and I did all we could do. Believe me though, the team in question is being looked into by the stadium manager. Please don't think that we don't care about these matters, we try as best as we can to make our teams happy.
If you have any more questions or queries, please don't hesitate to ask us refs while at the stadium, we do listen.
Thankyou.