Basketball coaching, regrettably, lags behind some sports in terms of the relationship between coach and players .
There is a genuine feeling in basketball that believes, 'it was good enough in my day and nothings changed' and Sturty's, 'walking thru snow line', although tongue in cheek, reflects a lot of coaches' mind sets.
There are exceptions, but I've found coaches who run the kids to death, over do punishments, punish the group for individual errors, etc. do so because they haven't got the coaching skills to implement. You don't need much in the way of basketball nous to make kids run or do push ups.
Generally there is very little work done with basketballers to build their self-esteem and self belief structures and the 'person' is largely ignored. Explanations in basketball seem to be unnecessary hindrances and don't seem to happen often. Kids are more often made to feel stupid for not getting the play or achieving the right footwork etc.How many basketball coaches run team buiding exercises or adhere to the principles of keeping the whole team feeling good about itself?
Better coaches have discovered that if you make a young person feel valued, treat them with respect and listen to their points of view better results follow.
Blastings in basketball are the norm and it is one of the few sports still clinging to the 'yell at them' and 'humiliate them' style.
During a game there will always be a place for communicating at the top of your voice to be clear and make sure your heard and often this can be misunderstood by onlookers as can be the intensity of time outs but unfortunately, the after a loss change room can reveberate with the coaches rantings and distressed kids exit.
There are good coaches out there and they have happy kids playing for them. Unfortunately there seems to be the notion that you cant combine winning and being treated with respectand the after a loss training flogging on the training track has never worked.